Connections

Fun, Very Houston Ways for Adults to Make Friends

Growing your circle here can feel daunting, but it can be done if you know where to look.

By Uvie Bikomo October 14, 2024

Human HQ creates safe environments to meet people.

Making friends as an adult is not easy. It’s even harder in a city like Houston, where everything’s spread out and people tend to stay in their bubbles. But the energy capital is also full of life and community—if you know where to look.

Whether you’re new to H-Town or just looking to mix up your social circle, making friends here can be as laid-back or adventurous as you want. It’s a city with a million things going on: trivia at dive bars, dance classes.... You name it, someone’s probably doing it. So, forget the small talk, and figure out how to meet your kind of people in Houston without feeling like you’re trying too hard.

Mixers and get-togethers

Hard to Make Friends as an Adult Houston

The name of this local Meetup group cuts straight to the chase—it’s a community of new and lifelong Houstonians with the goal of making friends. From trivia nights to ghost tours, the group hosts lots of activities catered to a diverse audience that facilitate making connections and learning more about the city. The founders of the social club also have a podcast where they discuss the challenges of growing your circle as an adult.

Human HQ offers a peaceful environment for deep conversations.

Human HQ

If you’re looking to meet new people in a serene setting, Human HQ is for you. This project brings together small groups to have meaningful conversations that build relationships. Founded and hosted by therapists, Human HQ runs events on topics that cover different aspects of life and make you connect with yourself and other guests.

Mixy Events

Looking to create a space for adult transplants to the city, Mixy Events hosts several themed activities, from game-filled mixers to fitness events, as well as women-centered options. Founder Iyana Adamasu aims to make an environment where people can show up solo and leave with lasting friendships. There's also a member group chat to encourage the continued fostering of new bonds.

Exercise groups

Coffee & Bikes connects people through city rides.

Coffee & Bikes

Try out some local coffee before going on a bike ride, all while meeting people. What better way to discover Houston than by cruising our tree-lined streets with some new friends? Most of the rides take place early in the morning, so you don’t have to worry about the city’s pesky heat.

Critical Mass

Imagine hundreds of people of all ages gathering on their bicycles, riding through various neighborhoods in Houston, then stopping to hang out for a while with some good energy and music. That’s exactly what you get with Critical Mass, a monthly event every last Friday that draws such huge crowds it’s impossible not to make a new pal. The routes alternate frequently, and you don’t even need to sign up. Just show up with your bike and a good attitude.

HTX Outdoors

This one is for the adventure seekers. HTX Outdoors offers different activities to quench your thirst for engagement with a zest of energy. Whether you’re looking to go hiking, camping, paddleboarding, or climbing, or just want to play some sports, there are more than enough events to keep you active while connecting with others. Membership gives you free access to events, and the group often takes national and international trips.

Post Houston exercise classes

Keep an eye on Post’s event calendar for the downtown venue’s monthly lineup of free fitness programs on the rooftop Skylawn, including yoga, Zumba, boxing, HIIT, and Pilates. After a class, you and your new friend can peruse the food court to find your new tasty obsession.

Tour de Hood

Born out of a desire to create a healthier and more connected Houston, Tour de Hood bike rides were created by longtime Third Ward resident Veon McReynolds to promote active living. The organization also hosts kayaking and camping trips.

Creative circles

Houston Art Group

If you’ve ever wanted to learn how to sketch or have been looking to fine-tune your painting skills, Houston Art Group is where it’s at. The club hosts two-hour meetups in different areas across the city. These instructor-led sessions aim to help you improve your art, whether you’re a beginner or a pro.

Kindred Spirits Book Club

This Black- and woman-owned bookstore specializes in the literary works of BIPOC writers. The owners host several in-person monthly book clubs focusing on different genres from romance to nonfiction. The club also features author talks.

Creatives can find a home and new connections at Oqupi.

Oqupi

The imaginative can find their community with Oqupi, a collective focused on fostering relationships between creatives. The group hosts quarterly networking events to connect people in the artistic space regardless of medium. Membership also gives you exclusive benefits like access to specialized events and opportunities to gain exposure for your work.

Writer’s Room

This is for those who prefer the ease of a virtual hangout. The Houston Writers Guild’s Writer’s Room hosts weekly Zoom writing sessions that include conversations on publishing and work opportunities. The guild also hosts in-person seminars and conferences for authors, publishers, and writers.

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